fterawhile,grandmlyaskedme:”youhaveenmarriedryside,haveyoueverenupearlykforyourin-laws”
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kalookatyourgrandfatherandyourfather,lefamilywereformyanswerhisembarrassingqre’snoexcuseiy:”inprinciple,ialwaysgetupnpenmyeyeseverbeinbedlate.ikeepdhisformanyyears.”
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dernlife,lotsofpeoplehavebeensacrificedtheirfamilycultureinpeopleempntheyandpayblishhefeelfsharingexperience,instead,ithasbeenreplacedbyconslture,moreoverhesupportofconsept,peopleareperusinglargerandmoreenjoymeerialvesacrificmostimporfamilyreverypopularhetribalvillage,therewillbeelongblderlyandchildren,andyllkxchangeofexperiencesbbrotheristers,familymembersatdinnertable.allofrereplacedbylevisionprogramsofbusipporvertisribydso,peoplearemakhemselvesgraduallymovedawayfromtheirnormallifrbitoflifrvival,frewillbemorefragiletwistedmimorelonelysoulifficultyappearrrbypovertyrdship,therrantpeoplewillrdsself-destrexceptberazylivehappilyisalreadyanelusiveidealdre
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heawakepeoplegraduallybeawareofytorelaxthemselvesphysicallyandmentally,exceptfortraveling,exercising,theymovedthemselv,tobrvironmretherearealotofplants,livealifefullofsunligrnecolllivingenvironmentisrftheprpportofafamily.thus,therewillrfamilypurposesishievrmonyecolllyandinpeopleadvocimplelife,respedprotecthandicraft,besides,childreeptdiffereltur,abetterlifelsobecrgetherwico-hardworkofadultandchildren.
heconstrfafamilytribeshouldfirstofallbebrmonysherrengthofallthefamilymemberstofacxternaldifficulties.harmonyshouldbecrfirshinthefamilythebeachievedhecollectivesociety.secondly,sakindofmodeloffamilyereliveasimplelife,makhemeasureslikebeingfarawayfromtelevisd puter,cherishralresources,caringforthebodyeegratedrdailylife.lastbleast,ldtaketheconstrfourrytobethegrandgoalhtheidealofeveryindividualsinvolvedhecollectiveidealvelopmentofeveryindividualstobeonepartofcollectivedevelopment,thefamily,societyldbelverykindofecolllyharslife.
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rmbegin,erwhatfamilyorwhereyourclassmates efrom,isrrespeherrhappinessfecteverypeoplearrwarmnesseltotherlrmodesfluenceother,yourprimaryschoollifeistobegin,ystrespectbchersandclassmates,cherisheveryyhappily.
h,dentally.ihavewrittenmorrds.
perhaps,whenyouareinprimaryschool.i’llerhistypeofletter.b’llstophere,isberegarpre-trphaseoftheprocesshavebeensuccessfully plfteforystartyourphysicaltryourteacherofdhasreendedyoufromtheydenterhecitydenter,whichfarawayfrrit’llbeveryconvenientforus.youalsohavetorecitethepoemyoualsohavetoprecalligraphy.butremember,i’llneverdepriveyourhappygre,jk,mustseizetheyear’sof52times.idobelievfter6years,mydarlllbeaqualveleap.
ell,i’llstophere.ihaveappointedwithyourxtterm’sstudyingplaneofyoursistersissykeamemorialtable,kforsissyimeofblewilllasspringfestival,gobackhomesistersissygoodmemorylikemewheny’dlikekeadveofherthirdgrvelopiledredthekehermemorybetterandbetter
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